How to Build a Support System for Your New Dog

Bringing home a furry friend is a big commitment, but you don't have to go it alone.

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Key Takeaways

  • Building a reliable support system, including a vet, trainer, and groomer, ensures a smooth transition for your new dog.
  • Start assembling your dog’s care team early, and include trusted professionals and family members in the process.
  • A well-trained, exercised, and socialized dog is happier, healthier, and better behaved in the long term.

Bringing home a new dog is exciting, but your new four-legged friend is also a major responsibility. Building a reliable support system early on can help ensure the transition goes as smoothly as possible for both of you.

A trusted veterinarian helps keep your pet healthy, while pet sitters and dog walkers can step in when you’re traveling or busy. A groomer can help you tame your pup’s wild mane, and a trainer can guide you through obedience basics and help troubleshoot concerning behaviors. 

With the right team in place, you’ll feel more confident—and your pup will be more likely to thrive. Here’s how to build a support team for your new dog.

Your Dog’s Core Care Team

Adopting a pet can be a life-changing decision, but it’s also a significant, long-term commitment. The good news? You don’t have to do it by yourself.

“Dogs need structure, patience, consistency, and guidance,” says Laurie Hood, founder of Alaqua Animal Refuge in Freeport, Florida. “We can’t ask anyone in a new situation to figure that out alone. Just like in humans, a support system helps reduce that stress and creates stability.”

Start by building out your dog’s core care team first, before moving on to other individuals who can play a supporting role.

Members of Your Household

Spouses, children, roommates, and anyone else living in your home are just as important as you are for ensuring your pet thrives.

“Everyone needs to understand the commitment and be willing to participate,” says Hood.

Animal Shelter or Rescue Organization

"Remember, the shelter becomes a part of your support system,” says Kara Starzyk, shelter manager at Abandoned Pet Rescue in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. “Don’t be afraid to reach back out to them.”

The team knows all about your dog's history, personality, temperament, health issues, and quirks, so they can offer advice tailored specifically to your pet.

Veterinarian

Vets provide routine medical care, such as vaccinations, parasite prevention, and wellness exams that can help protect against potential health problems. Just as importantly, a veterinarian can offer guidance on nutrition, behavior, and overall care. They’re also your first call if your pet gets sick or injured.

Pet owners should also find a trustworthy local emergency hospital for more serious or after-hours issues, says Starzyk.

Trainer or Behaviorist

You can work on many basic training commands at home. But dog behavior can be complex, and a professional trainer can bring valuable expertise to the process. They can also help you address small issues early, before they develop into bigger problems.

Group training classes are another good option, since they offer built-in opportunities for socialization

“A well-trained dog is a happy dog," says Dr. Stephanie Liff, owner of Pure Paws Veterinary Clinic in New York City and veterinary adviser at Spot & Tango. "Dogs that are well-socialized are also able to participate in more activities outside the home, which can be incredibly rewarding and enriching for their brain health.”

Groomer

For many pooches, routine grooming tasks like brushing, bathing, and nail trims can be handled at home. But some breeds have unique coat types or specialized haircuts that are best handled by a professional. Beyond saving you time and energy, a groomer can also keep an eye out for issues with your pet’s skin, hair, or nails that might be a sign of a more serious health problem.

Backup Care Options

Even when you have your week all mapped out—daily walks, weekend dog park sessions, regular doggy playdates—scheduling conflicts can and often do pop up. You also may need to travel, whether for work or vacation, which can often mean leaving your canine companion behind.

Dog Walkers

When your schedule is jam-packed, a dog walker can pitch in and help your canine companion burn off some energy—meaning you’ll come home to a relaxed, content pup.

“Exercise and mental stimulation are essential for a dog’s well-being,” says Cathy Bissell, founder of the Bissell Pet Foundation. “A well-exercised dog will be happy and will be better behaved.”

Pet Sitters or Boarding Facilities

One of the worst parts of travel is zipping up your suitcase and saying goodbye to your pet. But taking the time to find a reliable dog sitter or reputable boarding facility will help put your mind—and heart—at ease.

“Selecting a pet-sitting service early on will save the pet parents from scrambling to find someone to care for their pets the next time work, travel, or other duties take them away from home,” says Beth Stultz-Hairston, president of Pet Sitters International.

A sitter can also help your dog adjust to their new home, whether it’s a puppy in need of mid-day potty breaks while you’re at work or a senior dog who needs extra attention due to medical issues, Stultz-Hairston adds.

“Pet sitters can also ensure that pets receive the playtime and enrichment they need to alleviate stress and prevent destructive behaviors,” she says.

Preparation Pays Off

When it comes to building a support system for your dog, preparation pays off. Start assembling your team before you bring your new pet home, so you know exactly who to call for help when issues arise.

Starting early also gives you plenty of time to research providers with the right licenses and credentials. Ask friends and family members for their recommendations, and chat with the staff at the shelter or rescue organization. “Oftentimes referrals are a good place to start,” says Starzyk.

Last but not least, don’t forget to build a support network for yourself. Adopting a pet can be a big transition, full of ups and downs, and it helps to have people around who understand what you’re going through.

“Every pet owner needs fellow pet owners who can share experiences and collaborate—or commiserate—on issues and milestones happening in the pet's life,” says Liff.

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